tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post7016438095498605058..comments2024-03-11T14:47:53.952+08:00Comments on Life Is 2 Live: 80/20 RuleSaravananhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11880960310641600750noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-91636737146813818462011-12-12T13:59:46.364+08:002011-12-12T13:59:46.364+08:00HI Silky,
Nothing lasts forever. Can't change...HI Silky, <br />Nothing lasts forever. Can't change what has been done in the past but we can always change what will be done in future by taking control over your presentSaravananhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11880960310641600750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-22413383555592905092011-09-06T12:59:01.279+08:002011-09-06T12:59:01.279+08:00Im the 80 and my ex left me for what he thought wa...Im the 80 and my ex left me for what he thought was at least a 20, now he sees that she's a 7 at best. He now realizes that he let go of a good thing. We have a 7 month old son and he's already having a baby with his 7 and feels stuck now. I can't help but still cry sometimes...I will always love him, wish he would've thought about it before he did what he did. Can't change what's been done and there is no going back. :(Silkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05714267556469031703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-13749630470458766272011-08-08T07:57:06.061+08:002011-08-08T07:57:06.061+08:00People are selfish and only thing of themselves, n...People are selfish and only thing of themselves, no wonder their relationship go sour.....Imjustsayinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16198296919170952141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-76281549175113130642011-08-07T10:40:31.046+08:002011-08-07T10:40:31.046+08:00Wow i find that so true but help me understand if ...Wow i find that so true but help me understand if its the other way around and u suspect your spouce to be the one who is going towards a 20 and is about to loose his 80 because of itAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-33697806803398501502011-07-02T02:25:19.086+08:002011-07-02T02:25:19.086+08:00I was married for 15 yrs and you get caught in the...I was married for 15 yrs and you get caught in the same routine over and over. I had an affair for a full year before I left my ex-husband. I had never heard of the 80/20 rule. This is such a good ad I hope more people will read it and really analyze their situation. Trust me the 20% you're looking for looks really good. But when all is done and over with you will see how much more meaningful the 80% was. They only problem is that most time we realize this when it's too late. For anyone thinking the grass is greener on the other side... Trust me it's NOT!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-3418111644638207232011-07-01T09:31:19.736+08:002011-07-01T09:31:19.736+08:00Dear Anonymous.
Please postpone your thought of ...Dear Anonymous. <br /><br />Please postpone your thought of breaking away your hubby. Instead, go for a vocation with your family & see if it changes your mood.<br /><br />Honestly, if there is any difference of opinion, you should talk it out and get it resolved.<br /><br />Think about your child & take your decision accordinglySaravananhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11880960310641600750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-39023148660437142732011-06-23T16:55:18.347+08:002011-06-23T16:55:18.347+08:00Im still very confused of the 80/20. I am a mother...Im still very confused of the 80/20. I am a mother of a 10 month old boy and love him so much but lost the feeling of love towards the father and recently met with this guy i believe without a doubt that he'd make a gud if not perfect partner and want to break up with the father of my child. How do i break up with? pls help...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-53389710193158086682011-04-05T23:50:24.642+08:002011-04-05T23:50:24.642+08:00I have new one 0/100...when the sh*t hits the fan....I have new one 0/100...when the sh*t hits the fan...we simply being captivated by the concept if sh*t happens Sh*t has happen move on i'ts 0/100 ask a person with a broken heart...shhh*tAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-24766142502075629802011-02-28T16:40:37.111+08:002011-02-28T16:40:37.111+08:00Hi Ananymous,
You have got the right attitude, pl...Hi Ananymous,<br /><br />You have got the right attitude, please stay POSITIVE 100% & for sure you can expect the result to be +VE too.Saravananhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11880960310641600750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-90306503897391879272011-02-27T04:41:22.657+08:002011-02-27T04:41:22.657+08:00Thank you so much for this post. I've been try...Thank you so much for this post. I've been trying to be more positive lately, but it was beginning to seem like everything just kept getting <i>worse</i>. Now I'm realizing that to appreciate my life and stay positive, I have to keep looking <b>forward</b> without regret. <br /><br />Putting on a facade by pretending that I have not made, or will not make mistakes is what was keeping me back.<br /><br />Sincerely,<br /><i>Blessed</i>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-22449544016130896982010-11-14T14:54:34.095+08:002010-11-14T14:54:34.095+08:00I agree.....I agree.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-41959941227805630522010-10-23T12:44:29.962+08:002010-10-23T12:44:29.962+08:00Dear Anonymous Visitor,
All I want to tell you is...Dear Anonymous Visitor,<br /><br />All I want to tell you is, Forget the Past as you cannot change it. Live in Present, that will make your future fruitful.<br /><br />don't worry. Change is inevitable. You should let Go of things that haunts you & invite change.Saravananhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11880960310641600750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-47204750375065418772010-10-22T01:15:27.235+08:002010-10-22T01:15:27.235+08:00dear Saravanan
i have read and i believe the 20/8...dear Saravanan<br /><br />i have read and i believe the 20/80 rule .im married , i just had an affair , ended the affair but im deeoply in love with the guy i had the affair with , i cant seem to let go .I want my marriage to work but my heart is in a place of its own .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-66143210612348446772010-01-20T05:43:07.845+08:002010-01-20T05:43:07.845+08:00I wish I would have known this in the beginning of...I wish I would have known this in the beginning of my marriage. Thank goodness I realized it before it was too late.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-47898097690036140762009-10-30T18:55:41.513+08:002009-10-30T18:55:41.513+08:00Hi,
Stay positive if you really wanna get her as y...Hi,<br />Stay positive if you really wanna get her as your life partner.<br />Your positive thought matters a lot.<br /><br />All The BestSaravananhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11880960310641600750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-79616158130737715562009-10-30T16:44:25.354+08:002009-10-30T16:44:25.354+08:00My girlfriend and i have been having some problems...My girlfriend and i have been having some problems. She asked me if i know what 80/20 means and that i'm the 80%. She followed that with we need to spend some time apart without any contact she doesn't know how long for and that if its Gods will we will date again anew in the future. I'M concerned that i will loose her. Any comments.g1791https://www.blogger.com/profile/08736366096851305133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-79545047772311516872009-10-06T07:00:36.303+08:002009-10-06T07:00:36.303+08:00This is so true, I should appreciate my husband m...This is so true, I should appreciate my husband more.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-82925266587115174132009-09-12T22:02:14.738+08:002009-09-12T22:02:14.738+08:00Hi Vanes,
Sorry for the delayed reply.
Regardin...Hi Vanes,<br /><br />Sorry for the delayed reply. <br /><br />Regarding question of how to find what you have got is 80%, its very simple. Just Throw your head (mind) out and listen to Heart. You will get the right answer for any question that araises in your mind.<br /><br />Well for those who aren't married, should decide about whether they are ready to face the challenging marriage life throughout the rest of their life.Saravananhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11880960310641600750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-58872634926498195312009-09-08T13:55:08.336+08:002009-09-08T13:55:08.336+08:00Just wondering, but how do you know what you'v...Just wondering, but how do you know what you've got is 80% what you need? When is it that you are supposed to break up with someone instead of just validating the relationship to stay in it because no relationship is perfect?<br /><br />I get the point of the 80/20 rule and it makes sense for a marriage because, well, you made a commitment for life, but what about those that aren't married?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-137978952492793572009-08-11T11:32:31.302+08:002009-08-11T11:32:31.302+08:00This is sooo good...You really broke it down! Than...This is sooo good...You really broke it down! Thanks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-5334275083833683642009-07-14T09:02:15.710+08:002009-07-14T09:02:15.710+08:00Hi Ben,
Thanks for your comment. I am sure at lea...Hi Ben,<br /><br />Thanks for your comment. I am sure at least some have read and understood this value. <br /><br />Cheers,<br />SaraSaravananhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11880960310641600750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-19423710757500612132009-07-14T02:06:44.932+08:002009-07-14T02:06:44.932+08:00Hi man. Thanks for the post. It made me understand...Hi man. Thanks for the post. It made me understand more clearly what is vital in our social life. The fact of always be content of what or who one has in life. I wish other people could read that (men and women) but they are so damn non-intelligent and b.u.s.y (being under satan's yoke) that they don't live and learn what you just taught us. Thanks again, God bless. Ben S.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34503391.post-848086665451924612009-06-21T02:12:04.304+08:002009-06-21T02:12:04.304+08:00Very trueVery trueAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com